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Seek Help. Whether it be a professional or a trusted confidant, you will find that you’re not alone in this issue. When I told them how I felt, they were adamant and said that I should not go back to work. I looped my parents in about my bully boss while we were on holiday. In my eyes, quitting equaled failure, so I just kept riding the storm, hoping things would be better. If I only knew then what I know now, I would have tried these 5 bullying tactics. I hope they work for you. The experience haunts me to this day, especially when high-profile women are in the news for the same reason.

Bullying behaviour has four key aspects: It’s hurtful, It’s intentional, It’s repetitive, It involves a power imbalance. Challenging bullying behaviour in the early years gives you a great opportunity to ‘nip it in the bud’. Make sure you have an Anti-Bullying Policy and it’s up to date, freely accessible and regularly promoted - and that it makes clear how you will respond to bullying as a community. Be clear about how children should behave respectfully towards each other. Encourage restorative approaches including supporting children to express their feelings in a safe space and to apologise to each other in meaningful ways. Undertake empathy building activities which help young children learn how to express their feelings and recognise emotions in others, discussing the way that people are different, talking about kindness and helping others to feel better when they are upset. Work with parents to ensure they understand your approach to bullying and relational conflict. Help young children make sense of differences: present positive attitudes and messages about differences amongst us all and the benefits such attitudes bring to all people. Praise positive behaviour and interactions amongst children Role model positive behaviour amongst staff and parents Use story telling: there are many books you can use or you could use dolls to act out scenarios to explore empathy and cover sensitive topics with children, for example about children not being good friends or not playing together nicely. Challenge stereotypes such as ‘these are boys' toys’ in a positive and friendly way If you do see instances of bullying or conflict in your setting, think carefully about any ways that you might prevent this happening again.

To be considered bullying, the behavior must be aggressive and include an imbalance of power, repetition, and other factors. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Bullying includes actions such as making threats, spreading rumors, attacking someone physically or verbally, and excluding someone from a group on purpose. There are three types of bullying: Verbal bullying is saying or writing mean things, social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships, and physical bullying involves hurting a person’s body or possessions. Bullying can occur during or after school hours, while most reported bullying happens in the school building, a significant percentage also happens in places like on the playground or the bus.