Reinforcement can be used to teach and implement communication, social, self-help and table manner skills. When a parent recognizes the need to change a behavior, they will likely end up using either reinforcement, punishment, or a mixture of both. Since reinforcement focuses on increasing a desired behavior and punishment focuses on reducing an unwanted behavior but does not teach a replacement for it, it is typically recommended to use positive reinforcement when trying to make a behavior change. Punishment does not need be extreme, it is simply a stimulus that is used to discourage or decrease an undesirable behavior. Although punishment does not replace the negative behavior like reinforcement does, it is still a resourceful technique. Yet, whether you choose to use punishment or reinforcement, the key to successfully using these approaches, is to remain consistent. Remain hopeful even when you don’t see results right away, it will take time, patience, kindness, love and understanding.