How to calm down before something exciting?
Bret Schmidt
2025-07-23 19:53:46
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It can be experienced as a sense of restlessness, as a sense of kind of almost intensity in the body, and in the mind, of course. So the feeling can kind of change, you know, there's a, it's a nervous kind of excitement even, and one person will experience it as pure anxiety, and they'll bail out of the last minute and say, no, thanks, it's not for me. We tend to chase after it. We tend to be happy kind of chasing after those thoughts and being involved in that conversation in our own mind whereas with anxiety, of course, we tend not to like the feeling so much. It's not such a positive association, and so, we tend to kind of resist the thoughts a little more, but either way, whether we're chasing after thoughts or resisting thoughts, we're still creating more chatter in the mind, and that chatter is preventing the mind from calming down. So as much as possible, once we've seen that tendency to kind of, even if it's excited about sitting down and doing something for the very first time or because you haven't done it for a long time, still just recognizing that getting caught up in that conversation, and excitement has to be driven by a conversation, at some, in the mind, you know. So at some stage there has been a thought or a chain of thoughts which has created or stimulated that feeling of excitement and it's only sustained kind of by giving it more attention. So as soon as we've seen that and we've let go of it and we've come back, of course, absolutely fine just to sit there and to experience the feeling of excitement, to be present with it, to enjoy it, but not to encourage it. And I think when we do that, when we approach excitement in that way, then not only does the mind start to calm down a little bit, but it calms down with a sense of sort of happiness and joy.
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