Why is it so hard for me to leave my dog?
Vern Cremin
2025-07-19 13:26:23
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Dogs are social and typically prefer to be with others. Some may always struggle with being alone. When a dog doesn’t know how to self-soothe or cope, they may turn to chewing or clawing stuff around the house, or barking or howling. We’re the center of their universe — which is part of the reason we love them so much. Your dog’s emotional needs Is your dog active or are they a couch potato. How long your dog can stay home alone also depends on what daily exercise and interaction they need from you. Maybe they like the long hours to curl up on your bed while you’re out of the house. Or maybe they need daily two-mile walks and safe toys to mouth. Changes in behavior If you notice a behavior change in your pet due to being alone too long, it could be a sign to take some action. Examples of behavior changes include increased lethargy, depression or disinterest in once-beloved activities, and destructive tendencies. Destructive behavior is also a symptom of separation anxiety.
Vergie Murray
2025-07-19 12:53:43
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I ever feel bad for leaving my dog alone even though I know they’ll be perfectly fine and it’ll be only for a couple hours. My dog has basically zero separation anxiety, has never destroyed the house or had any accidents while I was away, has already had her dinner and her daily walks, I mean tbh I feel like she would barely notice I was gone, she’s really sleepy rn lol. But when I look at her pretty face I couldn’t help but think ‘but you’re so cuuuuute and precioooouusss how could I ever leave yooooouu”. Went to the pub, had lots of fun and came back home to a lovely sleepy puppy. She just slept the whole time and ofc everything was fine. Hope that serves as encouragement for those who are missing out on social events because of your dogs. Go out a little, have fun.
Imani Mertz
2025-07-19 09:21:21
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I always make sure he isn't hungry or needs to go outside before I leave, but I still feel that dog owner guilt emotionally even though logically I know his needs are met. You are not doing him any favors by always being there. He needs to be conditioned to your absence. You do not want to create separation anxiety in your dog. He is going to be fine without you there. He will just sleep and be very happy to see you when you come home. I hate leaving my dog, he seems fine when I do, but truthfully, I think it's me that has the separation anxiety because I prefer to be with him than other people. It's like exposure therapy in my experience, try baby steps where you’ll get confirmation that he’s okay, it’s good to start small and build up more confidence slowly over time.
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