Ignore Bad Behavior, While you’re teaching your dog alternative ways to communicate their needs, you should not reinforce the problem behavior. That means ignoring all your dog’s attempts to capture your attention. You have to be fair. Owners must first ensure they are meeting their dog’s needs and the dog is not sick or in pain. Only then can they ignore the attention-seeking but start with short periods.
Manage Your Dog’s Behavior, Because it can be tricky to ignore problem behaviors, and teaching alternative behaviors takes time, manage your dog to minimize their opportunities to practice attention-seeking. That might mean giving them a food-stuffed chew toy before you make your telephone call or making your call from another room. If you avoid your dog’s attention-seeking triggers, you will set them up for success.
Provide Enrichment, If your dog’s needs are met, they will have far less reason to seek your attention. Establish a routine so they know when to expect playtime, walks, meals, and so on. And make sure you remove frustrations and provide enrichment. For example, give your dog a job to do, like searching for their dinner kibble in the folds of a snuffle mat. When you know your dog is likely to show attention-seeking, try providing for its needs beforehand: exercise, play, elimination. Then redirect it to self-managing behaviors, such as chewing or playing with a feeding toy. Also, the dog should have designated rest/nap times scheduled for those times.
Reward Alternative Behavior, One of the ways to manage attention-seeking is to provide your dog with alternative behaviors. Your dog wouldn’t be asking for your attention if they didn’t want or need something in the first place. So, teach them a more effective way to get what they want. Then, reward that alternative. For example, if they want you to greet them when you get home, teach them to sit to say hello instead of jumping up. If they want you to play with them, teach your dog to fetch a toy rather than mouthing your hands. Stay strong, be consistent, and maintain your patience.