How do I deal with an introverted dog?

Dogs learn from positive association. The best way to help a shy or fearful dog gain confidence is to expose them to what frightens them at a low intensity. Pair this exposure with something positive, like a tasty treat. Allow your dog time to get used to people. Instruct others to ignore your dog, and let your dog decide whether they want to approach someone. Dogs that adjust on their own are more likely to approach people safely. Avoid direct eye contact, at first. Direct eye contact can be intimidating or threatening to a dog. Throw out treats, decreasing the distance for a safe interaction. From a crouched position, toss out a treat, one at a time. This allows your dog to approach at their pace and get a reward at the same time. Build up trust with your dog before bringing them to public settings like the dog park, a friend’s house, or a dog-friendly restaurant or brewery. Putting your dog in a stressful situation will set their progress back. Go slow and give them time to gain confidence and trust. If your pup is shy or fearful of other dogs, don’t force the interaction — just as you wouldn’t with people. Sometimes, interactions with other dogs are unavoidable, like out on a walk. Give yourself some space by going to the other side of the street or moving off the path. If your dog reacts aggressively — such as barking, lunging, or growling at other dogs — don’t feel too discouraged! Remember, it’s all about taking things slow and working with your dog as they gain more confidence.

Squat down with your body sideways to the dog. Look down or away, and keep your body language quiet and calm. Scatter treats on the floor around you, so that the dog can self-reward without any social pressure from you. Do not pet the dog until she is begging for attention. Sometimes just sitting in a corner of the kennel reading a book will allow the dog to approach at her own speed. Avoid looming over, reaching a hand down from above, approaching quickly and frontally—even making direct eye contact can be frightening for shy dogs. It may take several repetitions of the above techniques before you see results, but the rewards are worth it.

Just like humans, there are introverted and extroverted dogs. Some enjoy socializing more than others—and that’s all good and fair. Dogs who have limited access to other people and pets can also develop shy, antisocial characteristics. Confining your dog at home is a recipe for an anxious, frustrated, and anti-social dog. Your four-legged friend needs room to release his or her energy while learning how to navigate the world by your side. 1. Practice Basic Commands is one way to help. Commands are confidence boosters for dogs—and who doesn’t love a good boost of confidence? Make sure you’re praising your dog every time he or she sits, stands, or shakes on command. But don’t just limit basic commands to your dog; make it clear to your friends and family that they cannot make any sudden movements toward your dog, as this may increase anxiety. Introducing to New Dogs can also be helpful. Introductions can be nerve-wracking. A dog dealing with social issues might be scared or hesitant to meet new dogs, so it’s important to introduce them at your dog’s pace. The best way to start is by introducing your dog to dogs you already know and trust. Reward your dog each time they exhibit good behavior. Sometimes, the best course of action is the help of a professional. Certified behaviorists will work closely with you and your dog to offer the support they need. Remain patient with your dog—and yourself.